Okay after thinking about both sides here’s my opinion.1. When you enter a relationship the last thing you should want or need to do is change someone.
2. If your standards permitted you to enter in a relationship with someone who does this you should either try to compromise or walk away if it bothers you. But you knew from jump ya girl liked to party (i assume) so why you mad now?
3. Let her live her life. Clearly she has FRIENDS who can party like no other. If you’re not okay with it bounce. If you want a wifey who doesn’t party then find a woman who stays home and stfu whining.
But saying she doesn’t know what’s best herself??? Mmmmm nah