What’s your unhealthiest coping mechanism?

Sleeping, avoidance, isolation, alcohol 


A woman telling you she’s a lot to handle is her making an excuse to be obnoxious

No. I’m a lot to handle because I’ve worked hard to move beyond the socializing that allows the men in my life to be comfortable not growing. I’m going to challenge you, not necessarily with words or even purposefully… just by existing in your space. That’s a lot to handle. You are going to be moved to become more introspective. You’re gonna question yourself & some of your core beliefs. I’m magic & you will bow in the presence of greatness & after you bow you’ll be frightened at how easy bowing is. That’s a lot to handle. Fire doesn’t *try* to change things. It changes things just by being.